


Why Does Heartland do Child Dedications?
A child dedication is a public promise before God and his church where parents recognize that their children are God’s good gifts and where the parents commit to raising their children so that they may grow in the knowledge of God chiefly revealed in Jesus Christ who is the Lord of the universe and Savior of his people.
It is important to state that a child dedication is not a picture of the salvation of the child—dedication is not baptism. A child dedication also does not bring about the salvation of the child—dedication does not save them.
Nevertheless, a dedication is an important moment in the life of the child, parents, and church where we publicly recognize the responsibility that God gives to parents to cherish their children and raise them so that they might grow in the knowledge of God and, by God’s grace, know Jesus as Savior and Lord.
A dedication is a first step, not a final product. It is a commitment to undertake the long but rewarding journey to raise a child in a home governed by the truths of the gospel so that God may be glorified.
We see the example of child dedications in Scripture. Hannah dedicated the prophet Samuel when she released all worldly claims on her son and committed him to God (1 Samuel 1:21–28). Likewise, Mary and Joseph presented Jesus at the Temple in Jerusalem as a dedicatory action (Luke 2:22–23) which was commanded in the Old Testament for all firstborn males (Exodus 13:2, 12).
So we also follow these examples as we undertake the practice of child dedications.
It is important to state that a child dedication is not a picture of the salvation of the child—dedication is not baptism. A child dedication also does not bring about the salvation of the child—dedication does not save them.
Nevertheless, a dedication is an important moment in the life of the child, parents, and church where we publicly recognize the responsibility that God gives to parents to cherish their children and raise them so that they might grow in the knowledge of God and, by God’s grace, know Jesus as Savior and Lord.
A dedication is a first step, not a final product. It is a commitment to undertake the long but rewarding journey to raise a child in a home governed by the truths of the gospel so that God may be glorified.
We see the example of child dedications in Scripture. Hannah dedicated the prophet Samuel when she released all worldly claims on her son and committed him to God (1 Samuel 1:21–28). Likewise, Mary and Joseph presented Jesus at the Temple in Jerusalem as a dedicatory action (Luke 2:22–23) which was commanded in the Old Testament for all firstborn males (Exodus 13:2, 12).
So we also follow these examples as we undertake the practice of child dedications.
What Does it Mean to Dedicate a Child?
A child dedication at Heartland consists of five parts.
- Recognize that children are a gift from God. In Genesis 1–2 we see that children were a good part of God’s plan for his creation so that they should be cherished as a gift from God. As a result, parents should be grateful for their children as they recognize their role as stewards and not masters over their children (Ps 24:1; Ps 127:3–5; 1 Cor 10:26).
- Release children to God. God has directed the paths of each child as he already knows them before they were born (Psalm 139:1–24; Jer 1:5; Isa 44:2; Luke 1:41; Eph 1:4). As followers of Jesus, we acknowledge that our children belong to God. We will accept God’s purposes for their lives.
- Request their salvation through prayer. We believe in the power of prayer so that God uses prayer as a means to accomplish his purposes (Mk 11:24; Lk 11:5–12; John 15:7; 1 John 5:14–15). Therefore, as parents we commit to praying for the salvation of our children, that they may follow Jesus as Savior and Lord (Matt 6:9–10; Rom 10:1; Eph 1:3–6).
- Raise children so that they may grow in godly character. Before God and his church, parents commit to raising children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord so that the children may grow in the knowledge of God’s Word, the joy of the Lord, and the character of Christ. (Deut 6:5–9; Prov 22:6; Eph 6:1–4)
- Receive the support of the congregation. Parents are not alone in this task. The local church commits to joining with the parents in their God-given work to build up their children in the knowledge of Jesus (Rom 14:19; Eph 4:11–16; 1 Thess 5:11).
What Will the Child Dedication at Heartland Look Like?
- Your child will be dedicated at either the 8:30 AM or 10:00 AM service, depending on your preference. Barring any technical difficulties, the 8:30 service should be livestreamed, but this cannot be guaranteed. No recordings are available for download. However, the 8:30 service is available on YouTube by Monday morning.
- Please arrive by 8:15 AM for the 8:30 service or 9:45 AM for the 10:00 service so that we can confirm your attendance and communicate any last-minute details.
- After the time of corporate singing, Pastor Cooper will call you on stage for the dedication. Both parents are encouraged to come on stage. Siblings can come on stage with the parents or stay seated with a friend or family member.
- Pastor Cooper will introduce each family and talk briefly about the purpose of a Child Dedication.
- I will ask each family the following four questions. At the end of each question, both parents will answer “We do.”
- Do you today recognize these children as the gifts of God and give heartfelt thanks for God’s blessing?
- Do you now dedicate your children to the Lord who gave them to you, surrendering all worldly claims upon their lives in the hope that they will belong wholly to God?
- Do you promise, God helping you, to make it your regular prayer that, by God’s grace, your children will trust in Jesus Christ alone for the forgiveness of their sins and for the fulfillment of all his promises to them; and in this faith follow Jesus as Lord and obey his teachings?
- Do you pledge as parents that, with God’s fatherly help, you will bring up your children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, making every reasonable effort, with patience and love, to build the Word of God, the joy of the Lord, and the character of Christ into their lives?
- After all of the families have made these affirmations, Pastor Cooper will then ask the congregation the following.
- Congregation, as the Body of Christ in this local church, do you commit to joining with these parents in prayer, encouragement, and support so that the parents may live up to these promises and that these children might know God in Christ? If you agree, please indicate that agreement by raising your hand.
- Pastor Cooper will then pray a single dedicatory prayer for all the families.
- Before you leave the stage, Pastor Cooper will give you a certificate as well as a gift from the church.
What is Next to Confirm My Family’s Participation in the Dedication Service?
Heartland does two dedication services each year: one on Mother’s Day and one in the Fall (usually around October). You can dedicate your child at either service. It is not uncommon to have older children dedicated as well. There is no age limit.
Make sure that you have registered for the dedication service by using the button below.
Once you have indicated your interest in dedication through registering online, Pastor Cooper will reach out to confirm your desire and availability for the Child Dedication Service.
Make sure that you have registered for the dedication service by using the button below.
Once you have indicated your interest in dedication through registering online, Pastor Cooper will reach out to confirm your desire and availability for the Child Dedication Service.
How Does Heartland Help Parents Disciple Their Children?
Heartland provides many resources to parents as we seek to equip and encourage parents to be the primary disciple-makers of their children.
- Preaching: The single most important way we help parents disciple their children is through faithfully preaching God’s Word as we seek to understand what it teaches us about God and his world. This assists parents by teaching them the truth so that they may teach it to their children and teaches children directly the truths of Scripture.
- Sunday School: Many of these classes are designed to support parents in their God-given task of raising children so that they may know God.
- Small Groups: Heartland has many small groups that meet throughout the week. Several of these are family-based small groups where families meet for community, encouragement, prayer, and training.
- Resource Creation: There are several resources designed by Pastor Cooper to help parents disciple their children. These include a short guide on how to do “Family Devotions” entitled Family Faith Talks: An Introduction. There also is a list of “Recommended Resources” broken down by age that parents can use in their homes. Finally, there is a 4 part guide through the book of Jonah that parents can use to study the Bible with their children—this guide has different versions based on the age of the children.
- Family Resource Area: Outside of the Heartland Kid’s hallway downstairs there is a Family Resource area with books available for you to browse and borrow (1-2 week limit) that can provide age-appropriate resources for children as well as volumes that help deepen a parents’ understanding of their God-given role as the primary disciple-maker of their children.
- Recommendations: Two books are especially useful for parents seeking to raise their children in a home governed by the truths of Jesus. First, Family Discipleship by Matt Chandler and Adam Griffin offers a thoughtful framework and practical advice for how parents can go about the work of discipling their children. Second, Parenting by Paul David Tripp is a thoughtful presentation of 14 principles that provide a biblical, gospel-saturated vision for how to parent in a way that recognizes our dependency on Jesus that leads our children to follow in the ways of Jesus. Many other excellent resources exist, but these are two good ones to get you started!
We rejoice with you at the good gift that God has given your families. We also consider it a God-blessed privilege and responsibility to support you as you seek to fulfill your God-given responsibility to love and raise your children in a way that is pleasing to God.